It may be that you should try and make it better by thinking about the things that we could do differently with each other.
That’s a great idea. So many of us are too self-involved to really try to think about what we should do for each other. For most people, it’s all about the personal things. Whether it’s dating, breaking up, or losing weight, we all tend to focus on our own happiness and problems instead of the bigger picture of what’s working well together.
I’m not talking about the “what’s better” or “what’s at the end of the day” things. I’m talking about the things that we can do with each other, the things that we can’t do because we’re not really interested in them, and the things that we can do with each other.
The thing we can’t do because were not really interested in them is a topic we are all familiar with. It’s the ones we’ve been avoiding. And like any other topic, the only way to remove the fear of it is to talk about it. People don’t want to hear the truth, but they are willing to hear it if there is something they can do about it.
As an example, I feel like we often avoid talking about the kind of life we live because we just dont want to face the fact that we dont want to be in it. In the same way, I feel like people dont want to hear the truth, but they are willing to hear it if there is something they can do about it.
Yes, this is a really hard topic to talk about. When I started this blog I had no idea what to talk about so I just kept saying “I don’t want to talk about it!” The truth is, I don’t talk about it because I’m scared to, but I also don’t want to face the truth because I’m scared of it.
You want to stop what you’re doing and stop looking at all those photos of you with a smile on your face, right? I don’t think you’re being truthful about that. If you were honest with yourself, you would know that that’s not true. No one is forcing you to do anything, you’re doing it just because you want to do it.
That just goes to show that a person can be truthful and still feel scared and ashamed of their own behaviour. It was actually quite cool to see a person who was so comfortable being a creep on that site. She was so comfortable that she didn’t realize that she was being a creep. It’s hard to be that comfortable, and yet so hard to stop.
To be honest, I wouldnt feel comfortable being that comfortable in person either. Instagram and the number of people who are comfortable with their own actions make me feel like I should be hiding my activities from everyone. It feels like I should be hiding my activities from myself as well.
The whole thing with Instagram is that even if you are comfortable, the people you are comfortable with are so many other people who are comfortable with their own actions. It is so easy to become comfortable with your own actions, and then you get uncomfortable with the actions of the people you are comfortable with. There are times when I feel like I should do things to make the people I am comfortable with feel comfortable with me. But I dont.